In Praise of the Clumsy Friend
A friend sits in your living room and does not know what to say. The silence gets heavy. You may walk away thinking they failed you. They did not. AI or a chatbot have better words, but they will never walk into the room.
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Truth and Grace and Time
Think of the times someone tried to help and made it worse. Psalm 85:10 shows why. Truth without grace crushes. Grace without truth abandons you in a comfortable place. And both, without time, still wound. Real help holds all three.
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The Wounded Guide
The believers the church has often considered disqualified are the ones the church most needs to lead. The risen Christ kept his wounds. The scars are the credential. Part five of Radical Hospitality: Creating Room for Mental Wellness.
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Suffering Is Not Punishment
Many Christians with mental illness carry a quiet equation — this is happening because I have done something wrong. The Bible refuses that equation. Jesus refused it. Part four of Radical Hospitality: Creating Room for Mental Wellness.
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The Sanctuary Outside the Building
There is a person in your church who is no longer in your church. They have not left the faith. They have left the building. These are not the same thing. Part three of Radical Hospitality: Creating Room for Mental Wellness.
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Bringing Them Into Your House
The meal train ends. The depression does not. Isaiah does not say send them food. He says bring them in. Part two of Radical Hospitality: Creating Room for Mental Wellness.
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Sharing Bread Without Asking Why
The hungry in your congregation are not always the ones with empty plates. The Lord's first instruction in Isaiah 58:7 is not fix their hunger. It is share your bread. Part one of Radical Hospitality: Creating Room for Mental Wellness.
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The Sentences That Were Supposed to Help
God won't give you more than you can handle. Everything happens for a reason. They meant well. The sentence sat in your chest for the rest of the afternoon, doing a quiet damage you could not name. The problem is not your faith.
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The Ministry That Outran You
The world is quietly walking away from hustle culture, and the church has not yet noticed. You are still going. The calendar is still full. And somewhere underneath, a question has started to surface — was this the shape it was supposed to take?
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